Potential Hidden Costs for Weddings

Weddings can be crazy expensive, so make sure you budget in some extra for these potential hidden costs for weddings that are sometimes overlooked! Even though I’m normally a Pittsburgh and Indiana based wedding photographer, I was lucky enough to travel to photograph this Harrisburg Wedding! Deb and Michael definitely pulled off the “wedding of the century” at the Manor on Front in Harrisburg, incorporating their sacred wedding mass rooted in history and tradition, their stunning venue harkening prohibition-era in structure and decor, and our collaboration to emulate family heirloom wedding portraits.

The smartest thing about this wedding though? Their ability to pull off a high-end, classy wedding with money-saving tweaks like a small guest list, DIY signage, and utilizing smaller vendor packages (like limited time for photography or having live music during cocktail hour only).

If you are planning a wedding, make sure to check out other helpful blogs in our Wedding Planning Guide!

Hidden Wedding Costs to Plan for

Below are some general tips for making sure you set aside some extra funds to ensure there’s no surprises that last month before the wedding when everything gets expensive!

PERMITS:

If you have your heart set on a location for photos, the next step is to find out who owns or controls that location and see if they require a permit and how much that costs.

SNACKS:

Food can be a nuisance on a day when you are crazy busy, but if you have everything prepared ahead of time (including how to pay for it!), you can just enjoy! Consider breakfast, lunch, and snacks/drinks for after the ceremony too!

TIPS:

Although not necessary, you may want to budget in some money to tip your vendors who are providing a service in real-time at your wedding, including your bartenders, DJ, videographer, photographer, limo driver and catering staff.

PARKING:

It's likely that your venue will have a parking lot, but have you thought about any stops along the way in between the ceremony and reception? If your bridal party is going to be driving their own cars to your photo locations, make sure everyone has money for unexpected meters or tolls! 

DRESS/SUIT:

Even if you don't think you need alterations, you probably do. Your dress or suit was not MADE for your body, so budget just a bit more to get it to look absolutely perfect. And if the dress has a train, you WILL want a bustle.

POSTAGE:

If you are doing save the dates, invites, and thank you cards, the postage for each piece can add up! Without realizing it, your guest list of 300 just cost you $450+ in stamps!

PAPER PRODUCTS:

Invites are obvious, but what about other paper products you will need like RSVP cards, gift registry cards, escort cards, programs, maps, menus, signage, and more?

REHEARSALS:

Rehearsal dinners can be as fancy or as informal as you wish, but there WILL be an expense to consider, whether that be renting a room at a venue, tips, parking at a restaurant, or even paper goods for a pot-luck style shin-dig. Figure out your plan early and think through the details! Also, check if your venue requires anextra rental fee for occupying it during your rehearsal day (most do).

Planning a color scheme for your wedding
Wedding Party at the Roost in Mahaffey PA with yellow and purple wedding colors

I have photographed many weddings at the Roost Event Center in the few years they have been operating in Mahaffey, PA and it is a very popular venue for a reason! This July, Christine + Ryan pulled off an epic wedding that felt like sweet slow summertime romance meets life in the fast lane IYKYK! Both of these wonderful people are astonishingly talented and fearless, as anyone at this stunning wedding can attest to. So much decor and details were hand-made, and the unique color scheme was equal parts romantic and whimsical.

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Unique Wedding colors

As a lover of color and anything bespoke when it comes to weddings, I absolutely adored the color palette dreamed up by the bride, all the way back to when she first got engaged. The butter yellow bridesmaid dresses were a part of the theme and vision far before they started to trend this wedding season. The florals followed suit (literally), matching the yellow dresses from Revelry and the groom’s LAVENDER suit from Men’s Wearhouse! The colors were carried throughout the details of the day as well! I was blown away by all of the clever places the yellow and lavender were used:

Wedding color decor ideas

  • linens

  • candlesticks

  • cookie icing

  • cake icing

  • welcome sign

  • seating chart

  • escort cards (she used screen printed chiffon that matched the dresses!)

  • lawn games (custom connect 4 game pieces! What?!?!)

  • table signs

  • playing cards as a guest book (guests sign each card in a deck!)


I hope this inspires you to think outside the black and white box that weddings usually live in and incorporate some COLOR into your big day! If you’re looking for a photographer that will edit those colors like you intended, lets talk! And of course this day could not have been as seamless without the help from this stellar team:

Hair: LadyDi Creates

Makeup: @thespaandstudioatmds

Invites: the BRIDE!!

Florals: Flower and Balloon Gallery

Catering: @oldcarolinabbqofficial

DJ: Royal Heir Professional DJ Services

Video: Capture Life Films, LLC

Coordinator: Events by Emily

Donut Truck: Sinkers & Suds Food Truck

Second Photographer: Jon Blanchard Photography

Spring Engagement Photo Locations

Mellon Park in Pittsburgh, PA, is a favored location for engagement photos due to its picturesque setting that’s a perfect blend of architecture and nature. The park boasts a stunning stone fountain that provides a timeless backdrop for romantic photos. In the spring and summer, colorful flowering trees and landscapes add a touch of natural beauty to the surroundings, creating a dreamy atmosphere for capturing special moments. The park's wrought iron fence features add a touch of elegance and charm to photographs. Additionally, Mellon Park offers the convenience of ample parking, making it a practical choice for couples and photographers seeking a seamless photoshoot experience.

When searching for a photo location in the city that exudes a natural and timeless vibe rather than an urban feel, consider exploring botanical gardens or parks like Mellon Park that are tucked away from the bustling city centers. These serene pockets of greenery provide a tranquil backdrop with their lush foliage, blooming flowers, and winding pathways, offering a peaceful escape from the city's concrete jungle. Mellon has all the hidden gems like quiet courtyards, a charming cobblestone street, and architectural structures that can add a touch of timeless elegance to your photos, creating a perfect blend of nature and history in an urban setting.

At Jill Gearhart Photography, we believe that unexpected moments can lead to some of the most memorable experiences. Picture this: you arrive at your outdoor photoshoot full of excitement, only for the skies to open up with a sudden downpour. Instead of letting the rain dampen our spirits, we choose to embrace the moment. Laughter fills the air as we dance in the rain, capturing candid shots that reflect the joy of spontaneity. The droplets add a magical touch to the images, creating a unique and unforgettable story. Despite the weather's twist, we ensure that your photoshoot is not only successful but also a fun and exhilarating adventure.

6 Hour Wedding Timeline Example

Looking to be efficient with your wedding photography budget and weighing if 6 hours of photography coverage is enough? In this post I’ll walk you through a 6 hour wedding day timeline and outline things that must be considered in order to have everything on your wedding day captured in 6 hours without feeling rushed!

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Example 6 Hour Wedding Timeline Template

Venue: SanaView Farms

3:00 - photographer arrives and captures detail photos
3:30 - bride gets dressed / bridal portraits

3:50 - first look with family
4:00 - groom gets dressed / groom portraits
4:30 - ceremony
4:45 - family photos/ cocktail hour
5:15 - bridal party photos
5:30 - bride and groom photos
6:00 - grand entrance
First dance
Parent dances
Cake cutting
Toasts
6:30 - dinner
7:15 - dancing
8:45 - sunset photos
9:00 - photographer departs / sparkler photo

This timeline was from a mid-July wedding that I photographed by myself - yes, it can be done! There are obviously some trade-offs and concessions that have to be made in order to have everything work. Things like having a small bridal party and not minding about having minimal prep photos were definitely helpful. I tell couples that when they are planning their coverage, we can either pair it down by taking time off of the beginning prep shots or the end dancing photos. Luckily this couple was happy to work with just a few of the important prep shots to save time for the fun at the end of the day!

It’s also very helpful having a smaller bridal for that small window for prep shots. Hair and makeup must be done ad gone by the time the photographer arrives and everyone ready to jump into their wedding outfits!

Perhaps the three most crucial elements, however, for having a 6 hour timeline are the following:

All - inclusive venue

If you’re doing shorter photography coverage, an all-inclusive venue, meaning a place where you can have both the ceremony and reception, is a MUST. Not only does travel time take up valuable time, but getting everyone packed up and out the door takes much more time than you think, which invites lots of opportunities to run late or have to hold things up because you’re waiting on one person in the wedding party to arrive. If you want to include prep shots in your 6 hours as well, having EVERYONE in the bridal party getting ready at the venue is also a must. If you’re shopping for a venue, it’s is a BIG selling point if they can accommodate both sides of the wedding party, the ceremony, and the reception all in the same walkable location.

Later ceremony time

Venues that shut down at 9pm because of residential noise ordinances will often push couples to have ceremonies that start at 2 or 3pm in order to still have a 4 hour reception, but if you’re looking for the most complete photography coverage that will include prep photos, you have to push your ceremony later to 4 or even 5pm. This gives the photographer enough time to get in the prep and detail shots before the wedding, and also have coverage extend past dinner into dancing!

consider the season for outdoor portraits

If you are having your ceremony outdoors or want your photos outdoors, you have to consider the season and when the sun goes down. The example timeline above was from a wedding in mid-July when the days were at their longest and the sun was up until past 8:30pm. If you’re having a fall wedding and the sun sets around 7, you’ll have to accept doing a first-look to get your outdoor portraits done before the ceremony (and thus lose dancing coverage).

If you’re considering a 6 hour wedding photography timeline for your big day, it is definitely achievable by following the septs outlined above. This wedding described in the post was easily one of the most relaxed, enjoyable weddings of my career, and not because of any plan we created, but because the couple CHOSE to be relaxed, trusting, and fully present for their friends and family.

Barn at Rayne Run Wedding | Gary + Carissa
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If you want a rustic wedding, chances are you are looking at a barn venue for your reception, and there’s no other season like fall to have a wedding with a rustic feel! Carissa and Gary incorporated all of the most beautiful aspects of fall, rustic barns, antiques, and country life into their October wedding at the Barn at Rayne Run in Marion Center. This venue is always great this time of year - especially because of the vibrant trees that run along the creek in the back of the property - and with the addition of the antique teal blue truck this year that was stuffed with mums and pumpkins for fall, it truly can’t get anymore beautiful.

It sounds strange to say this, but not all couples are as outwardly happy and excited as Carissa and Gary on their wedding day. Right before the first look, Carissa was literally bouncing up and down with excitement and she had a HUGE smile on the entire day - even during the “getting ready” phase which can be stressful for a lot of brides. I met these friends two years ago (she’s on the ball, seriously) and couldn’t wait for this day to come almost as much as them! I learned that they have been together for 6 years, and the proposal story was incredibly sweet with a very “Carissa” response! She tells it like this:

“Gary's proposal was the most perfect idea and complete surprise at the Fireworks on July 1, 2017. I really thought he wanted to get a "new profile picture for his Facebook page" when actually he had it set up so that my sister was getting pictures of the whole thing!! Considering I truly thought he was trying to have my sister take a profile picture, I told him to "shhhheeeeh! Kee is trying to get a picture!" when he started talking to me and telling me his proposal speech. He kept talking all while thinking "Is she serious?" and eventually just got down on his knee so I would realize what was going on... then I squealed, jumped, ran away (only about 3ft away), came back, and fell to my knees in front of him with complete and utter shock and excitement! Needless to say, a solid success!!”

All of that happiness, excitement, and kindness just radiates from them, and I especially love how family is so important to them. Carissa shared her “old, new, borrowed and blue” with her family members in a way to honor them and make them a special part of her day. She planned that “Something Blue is a sweet little hanky with adorable poem from my Mom that has a tiny blue bow and blue printed poem. Something Borrowed is my Granny Smith's pearl necklace. Something Old will be lent to me by my Gram Conrad but she tells me it is from my Pap Conrad who will be watching from Heaven. Something New is my veil which Gary's mother and my Mother - In - Law To Be, Theresa, bought for me.” Not only did she plan these sentimental details, but we captured photos of each family member sharing the item and a sweet moment with Carissa.

Admittedly, I anticipated the day to be a lot more hectic than it was, but with such sweet family and bridal party members, the convenience of everything being at the same location, a fantastic second shooter, and a couple willing to do a first look, the day went flaw.less.ly. Since we had a limited amount of time between the ceremony and the reception, and because we had a big family to honor with photo combinations, Carissa and Gary opted for a first look 2 hours before the ceremony start time. We were able to knock out the first look, nearly 50 family photos, bridal party photos, and couple portraits in an hour and a half! Once the ceremony ended and the receiving line was done, we grabbed a few more portraits with plenty of time to spare for bustling the dress, restroom breaks, and getting everyone placed for the DJ to announce them in!

We danced the night away in the elegant barn with its twinkle lights and chandeliers, and even snuck outside to a neighboring hillside for some sunset portraits. Needless to say, it was pretty much a perfect, stress free wedding day for all parties involved! This wedding’s sneak peeks are breaking the internet over on facebook, so you definitely want to scroll down to see a HUGE preview of their day below!

Vendor Team:

Photographer: Jill Stiffler | Jill Gearhart Photography

Second Photographer: Karen Plate | Karen Plate Photography

Venue: The Barn at Rayne Run, Marion Center, Pa

Gown: Stella York bought from White Lace Bridal, Indiana, Pa

Hair: Shear Stylin', Elderton, Pa

Bridesmaids Dresses: Morilee by Madeline Gardner bought from Rusted Rose Bridal, Kittanning, Pa

Florals: Flower Gallery, Indiana, Pa

Cake: Cheri's Cakes & Cruffles by Cheri from Brush Valley, Pa

Caterer: Flair of Country Catering and Event Planning, Corey and Mindi Crocco from Johnsontown, Pa

Favors: Homemade Apple Butter made and donated by Carissa's Grandmothers

DJ: Royal Heir DJ Services

 
 
IUP College Graduation Photos

As you prepare to graduate from IUP, capturing this special moment with professional photos is a wonderful way to commemorate your achievement. After you receive your cap and gown, consider scheduling a photo session at iconic locations on campus. The Oak Grove with its stunning backdrop of trees, the picturesque Sutton Hall porch, and the historic IUP arch all serve as perfect settings for your graduation photos. You may also want to take photos at any other building on campus that holds significance for you, creating timeless memories of your time at Indiana University of Pennsylvania. These photos will not only showcase your academic milestone but also preserve the emotional connection you have with the campus as you move forward into the next chapter of your life.

college grad photos with friends

In this special time of your life, I understand the value of capturing moments with friends, which is why I offer the option to bring a few companions along to your photo session. Your 1 hour time slot can be evenly divided among friends, allowing everyone to have their share of the spotlight. Clients can view all the photos taken during the session and handpick their 15 favorites. Should they wish to share the 15 final images with their friends, they have the flexibility to do so. Additionally, clients have the opportunity to add more photos at a nominal fee of $25 per additional file.

When preparing for a college graduation photo shoot, it is essential to bring along key items that symbolize your academic journey and achievements. Be sure to pack your decorated cap and gown, which are central pieces for the occasion. Additionally, consider bringing balloons, glitter, champagne, honors cords, instruments, books, or any other props that reflect your personality, interests, or successes during your college years. These items can add a personalized touch to your photos and make them more meaningful. Moreover, feel free to invite your family, pets, significant others, and friends to join the photo session, as their presence can make the experience even more special and memorable. Capture this important milestone surrounded by the people and items that matter most to you.

 
 
Unique Pittsburgh Engagement Spots
Engagement Photos at Strip District

If you’re looking for a fun location to get your engagement photos done that is unique to what everybody else is doing, check out the new Strip District Terminal location! Rachel, George and I took advantage of one of the city’s most diverse and walkable neighborhoods to capture some really whimsical and different photos.

We started the session at The Terminal, a new-ish revamp of the Strip District replete with colorful murals, cute storefronts, modern decor, and tons of Instagrammable spots! As a lover of color, we had to take advantage of the inside of the Novo Asian Food Hall with its bold decor. It was also a fun way to kick off the session as the more creative environment warranted more candid posing.

Next we headed to the back of the Terminal that used to house the market loading docks and found some industrial looking backgrounds to use with lovely mint green accents. It was just a short walk from there to the Cork Factory and adjacent parking garage which offered up beautiful sky-line views of the city. We had to get a little inventive to avoid some parked cars, but strategic posing placement made for some very “Pittsburgy” photos. There are not many locations in the city where you can get easily accessible sky-line photos AND walk to a location that’s less urban-looking for photos with a totally different feel.

After the rooftop pics, we wandered around the surrounding buildings looking for pretty landscaping and old-school architecture, which rounded out the shoot with some vintage vibes. Soaring red-brick apartment buildings and manicured sidewalks and landscapes tucked in between was a great place to get some more romantic and classic shots in without random strangers passing by. In just 10 minutes of walking, we found 3 totally different spots to photograph in that evoked 3 totally different vibes. Pittsburgh is a treasure trove if you know where to look!

Indiana Country Club Wedding Outdoors

The Indiana Country Club in Indiana PA is a great venue for an upscale wedding with both indoor and outdoor options for your ceremony. I’ve photographed weddings with the ceremony outdoors in the dedicated grove of trees near the golf course for ceremonies, with ceremonies outdoors but under their covered clubhouse patio, and also indoors in the ballroom with a quick room flip for the reception. It’s truly a versatile place for your wedding no matter the weather or room set up.

Most couples that get married at Indiana Country Club will rent a room at the nearby Hilton Garden Inn and use that for a more aesthetic space for getting ready. The Country Club offers to locker rooms for the same purpose, but they are also still open to the public. The groomsmen can opt for getting ready in the Cigar Lounge if the smoke doesn’t bother them.

The country club would honestly be my choice for a wedding reception if I could do my wedding all over again, even after seeing hundreds of venues. You don’t have to worry about parking, guest accommodations, bartenders, wait staff, finding a caterer, decor, coordinators, tables linens and chairs, and weather options. The food is consistently some of the best wedding food I’ve had and the food and drink package is on-par with, if not cheaper than, most caterers. Not to mention it’s beautiful inside and out!

Natalie and Ben had a beautiful and modern black and white outdoor wedding at the Indiana Country Club this past July. The ceremony was outdoors in the grove, which made for a very romantic atmosphere among the tall grasses and shady trees. Confetti exits were popular this year, which always means some amazing photos right at the happiest part of the day - when your smile is the biggest and most genuine.

Their bridal party looked amazing in all black, keeping to the classy black and white theme even with their decor. The country club offers black table linens which is unique and looks so elegant with the white napkins and white floral centerpieces.

Another unique touch to this wedding was the light up letters, rented from a local company. The staff set these up and tore them down at the end of the night, and it made for a big impact and a way to decorate the adjoining patio space off of the reception ballroom.

If you’re looking for a money-smart but still upscale choice for a wedding venue that can accommodate both indoor and outdoor ceremonies, the Indiana County Club is definitely a wonderful choice!

Christmas Elopement In Pittsburgh

Thinking of having a small, affordable wedding and looking to elope at the Allegheny County Courthouse? What could be better than a Christmas time elopement in a beautiful city like Pittsburgh full of magical holiday events and pop ups? Make it even more magical with a couple that’s only seen snow once, are huge Pittsburgh sports fans, and have the best weekend ever planned for their holiday wedding vacay!

With me being a photographer and my husband being a pastor, the courthouse is always a favorite for both of us for low-stress but still beautiful wedding ceremonies and photos. The Christmas decor at the grand staircase makes it even more special! This sweet couple flew in from Texas for their Pittsburgh nuptials, and I’m thrilled to have worked with them to help their day so easy and memorable.

Preparing for your ELOPEMENT

Applying for a license is a pretty easy and straightforward process on the Courthouse’s website. They will schedule a zoom call with you to go over specifics. The morning of the wedding the bride and groom picked up their bouquet at a local florist, picked up their marriage license, and walked right next door to the courthouse grand staircase to make it official! To prepare for photos and officiating with us, we do a zoom call too to meet you and discuss photo location options and to talk about any personal touches you want in your ceremony message and vows.

There’s never a ton of people around so your ceremony will still feel private. After the sweet and meaningful ceremony we did some photos in the beautiful courthouse, outside in the courtyard, then at some elegant and very Pittsburgh-y locations to really capture the magic of the city!

With traditional wedding costs on the rise, its becoming more and more popular to elope and have a more casual party with friends and family at another time. The Allegheny County Courthouse definitely makes it easy and elegant, not to mention finding a photographer/officiant team to help tie it all together!

Weddings Venues near Pittsburgh PA

The Barn at Madison is a unique wedding venue just a short 45 minute drive from Pittsburgh PA, offering a memorable and beautiful setting for smaller weddings. Lovingly restored from near ruins, this barn-turned-restaurant-turned-venue will definitely be something your guests remember!

If you’re looking for a unique venue that’s a little bit rustic, can accommodate overnight guests (aka bridal party), has an outdoor ceremony spot, and has excellent staff, this is your venue! I’ve had the pleasure of working at the Barn at Madison several times now and the weddings are always very smooth running, even in the case of rainy weather like the wedding below! Luckily we were still able to have the ceremony outdoors under a black pergola on the lawn at the back of the venue. Even though this “barn” is located right in a suburban area, it feels secluded with the ample tree cover and landscaping on the property.

It’s important to have great staff and vendors who will communicate and work with each other in case the timing of things need to change, like it did for Kelsey and Mike. We had planned on taking family photos and bridal portraits after the ceremony, but the rain made an appearance and we had to push the plan back a bit. Because the Barn at Madison has a separate space for cocktail hour (downstairs) and dinner (upstairs), guests could easily mingle indoors for cocktail hour, joined by the bride and groom.

Because this venue was once a restaurant and owned by an antique-loving family, there are many unique treasures in every corner, and the architecture makes for very unique wedding photos as well. Couples should keep in mind, though, that the downstairs ceilings are very low and the upstairs dining room can be tight with many tables - this venue definitely works best with a guest list closer to 100!